Well I rarely read a full article in the press, usually I read a few lines and then dumb it. But this one, is so true and puts the finger on the right spots.
I dedicate it specially specially for S&D and i*maginate just to point to what guys are really like, and the ones she is stumbling upon are just some teenagers or immature (even old teenagers or immature) people.
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Here are some picked lines.
...I can tell you this definitively about men: When a man falls for a woman, he falls hard. Men love to be in love. While men often get stereotyped as single-minded sex-seekers, the truth is that a man's stomach churns like a slushy machine when he's in those initial stages of the perfect relationship.
Well yeah we love sex, but let's get real if we just need sex we will go to hookers, if we must fall let it be in love.
...About 60 percent of men deem friendship the most important thing in a relationship...
What can be better than living with your friend, a good laugh, a nice flirt, this is a trademark of friends.
...Many men say they like a woman who's immersed in something else other than the relationship -- be it her work, or her sport, or whatever her "thing" is. Why? The passion she shows for something else confirms her inherent goodness, her personal drive, her independence...
Well to an extent it's true, let us see that you are an equal, don't let us feel that you can't live without us...
...Even when they're with the most perfect woman, men still crave the occasional space to spend golfing or drinking or doing whatever (64 percent of men are happy to have the time to themselves when their wives or girlfriends have plans)...
Actually we love you more than life, but let us see what is life, to cherish you more...
...Men want to be with women who challenge them, who push them, and who take the lead some of the times. And that's as true in the bedroom as it is in planning their next weekend getaway. The danger? While it can be insanely attractive, that strut of confidence can also swing a man 180 degrees -- if she uses it in other places, like to flirt with other guys, to become a relationship dictator...
We need someone to take some decisions with us, but don't take the only lead don't forget that we exist in this relationship.
...guys will definitely take women who can warn us when our new soul patch looks stupid, who can guide us to the perfect suit and shirt combo for an upcoming job interview, who can help them make decisions without being harsh or judgmental...
What I quoted is 100% a mirror of my soul... I was shocked how some writer described... Men in love with stats (and I thought I was special :P)
2 comments:
I think almost all men are like this... Just not all the time.
But this one, is so true and puts the finger on the right spots.
LOL.
On a more serious note - Shlemazl nailed it right, men are like this - just not all the time. And the toughest part is getting to this stage with a man...it's all rough riding till you get there...then it's smooth sailing.
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